Soul Kadee

When I read about Tom Cruise convincing Katie Holmes to give up her friends and take up Scientology, I felt sick.

Sure, she’s had a crush on him since she was a kid, but its a BAD idea to give up your individuality when you’re married.

And you should always have your OWN friends. People who can be there for you when times are bad.

Why are we women so damn accomodating and willing to please our man? We’re willing to give up our own needs, our dreams, our personality, when we become a “couple.” Its pathetic!!

And I feel sorry for Katie Holmes, cause she’s walking into a nightmare. What happens to her when the marriage falls apart (and believe me, it will, once Katie wakes up from her fairy tale romance)? Whose she gonna have to fall back on?

Here’s what some are saying:

Putting your life and your values on hold for your dream man is going too far, thinks Hilary Freeman, an agony aunt for Cosmo Girl and an expert on love’s young dream.

Here’s what I say: Get real, girl, and listen to what the rest of the world is telling you.

Love (and marriage) should free you, empower you to be yourself, give you wings to fly - not force you to become a shadow of your man.

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