Self-Image and Self-Awareness
August 22nd, 2006, 8:03 am by Priya Florence Shah
Filed under Self Help, Self-Awareness, Intuition, Personal Growth, Articles, Self-Improvement, Attitude, Thoughts
I just read this article by Joyce Shafer, that makes the distinction between self-image and self-awareness beautifully, and thought I’d share it with you.
Self-image is how we see ourselves and how we want others to see us. Self-awareness is who we know ourselves to be.
People focused on self-image, put their attention towards their physical presentation and whatever achievement means to them in all areas of their lives. Their behaviors follow particular patterns. They may move up the corporate ladder or socially or in whatever area matters to them, but they seem to stay the same personality-wise over time.
This group is where you’ll find perfectionists, as well. Members of this group are often stressed-out or easily enter this state of being. Self-worth is usually determined based on others’ opinions or on monetary measurements. Happiness is usually dependent upon how things turn out for them.
The other group pays attention to their physical presentation and things they choose to accomplish; but, these things piggy-back on the foundation of who they are based on their ongoing development of self-awareness. You can rely on them, but their behaviors and actions change in accordance with increases in self-awareness.
There are no perfectionists in this group because they know perfection is unrealistic, whereas excellence is realistic and attainable. Members can be affected by events, but have a strong foundation of self that readily returns them to a state of balance and a generally easy-going manner. They determine their own worth because they are self-actualized. Happiness is something they choose to experience more often than not.
The self-image group often stays contained emotionally. They may not even know what they really feel about something. They may live primarily by logic and, to some degree, emotion. Emotions and feelings are not the same thing.
Self-aware people deliberately search their feelings so they can live every moment as authentically as possible; and, they strive to properly manage their emotions.
Read the rest of the article here.
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