Comments on: Stupid Mistake #6: Believing Marriage Will Make You Happy http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/ An Appetite For Life Sun, 06 Jul 2008 21:18:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.2 By: ac http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-25416 ac Tue, 31 Jul 2007 05:02:11 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-25416 there are real legal reasons for marriage, especially when contemplating having children. for instance, marriage offers financial/legal protections for women (and men) who may suspend wage-earning to engage in uncompensated child rearing. while any one can leave a marriage - and there are no guarantees of security - there is a presumption or commitment by both parties that the goal is to try and stay together. It's true that such a goal doesn't necessarily entail marriage, but often a non-marital state is something less than a commitment to trying to stay together and women may be 'pushing' for marriage because they want to have an acknowledgement of that goal so that they can plan for the future based on that presumption. there are real legal reasons for marriage, especially when contemplating having children. for instance, marriage offers financial/legal protections for women (and men) who may suspend wage-earning to engage in uncompensated child rearing. while any one can leave a marriage - and there are no guarantees of security - there is a presumption or commitment by both parties that the goal is to try and stay together. It’s true that such a goal doesn’t necessarily entail marriage, but often a non-marital state is something less than a commitment to trying to stay together and women may be ‘pushing’ for marriage because they want to have an acknowledgement of that goal so that they can plan for the future based on that presumption.

]]> By: INFP Introverts :: INFP Relationships :: September :: 2006 http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-8904 INFP Introverts :: INFP Relationships :: September :: 2006 Wed, 03 Jan 2007 03:15:53 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-8904 [...] In general, INFJ, INFP and INTP types tend to be the most dissatisfied with marriage or intimate relationships, while ENFJ, ESFP and ESFJs are most satisfied. —MBTI Manual, 3rd edition, 1998 [...] […] In general, INFJ, INFP and INTP types tend to be the most dissatisfied with marriage or intimate relationships, while ENFJ, ESFP and ESFJs are most satisfied. —MBTI Manual, 3rd edition, 1998 […]

]]> By: Priya Florence Shah http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-6664 Priya Florence Shah Thu, 07 Dec 2006 09:59:10 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-6664 Hye Brandy, I'm so happy for you! You have something beautiful - and that's much more than most married people have. So hang on to it girl and enjoy every moment with your man. Hye Brandy, I’m so happy for you! You have something beautiful - and that’s much more than most married people have. So hang on to it girl and enjoy every moment with your man.

]]> By: Brandy http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-6529 Brandy Tue, 05 Dec 2006 22:41:52 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-6529 Thank you soooo much ! I needed to read these words of wisdom . I was feeling that my boyfriend didn't want to get married because I wasn't "good enough." We live together and share everything.He makes me very happy and I realise now that what I want is not marriage.What we have now is great. So why screw it up with a peice of paper. Thanks again Thank you soooo much ! I needed to read these words of wisdom . I was feeling that my boyfriend didn’t want to get married because I wasn’t “good enough.” We live together and share everything.He makes me very happy and I realise now that what I want is not marriage.What we have now is great. So why screw it up with a peice of paper. Thanks again

]]> By: Tequila http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-6067 Tequila Wed, 29 Nov 2006 04:27:03 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-6067 Hi Priya Great article - i agree totally - these days times are different - those who are married feel totally claustrophobic and those who are not - find that relationships work better without that legal document...great writing...good luck... Hi Priya

Great article - i agree totally - these days times are different - those who are married feel totally claustrophobic and those who are not - find that relationships work better without that legal document…great writing…good luck…

]]> By: tarannum http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-5270 tarannum Sun, 19 Nov 2006 17:33:38 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2006/11/18/stupid-mistake-6-believing-marriage-will-make-you-happy/#comment-5270 Hey Priya i totally agree with you on this one, life is just so beautiful...and as the saying goes you come alone you go alone....so along the way why not just be happy.. Hey Priya i totally agree with you on this one, life is just so beautiful…and as the saying goes you come alone you go alone….so along the way why not just be happy..

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