Comments on: How To Avoid Marrying a Jerk (or Jerkette) http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/06/07/how-to-avoid-marrying-a-jerk-or-jerkette/ An Appetite For Life Sun, 06 Jul 2008 21:32:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.2 By: Priya Florence Shah http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/06/07/how-to-avoid-marrying-a-jerk-or-jerkette/#comment-25063 Priya Florence Shah Tue, 17 Jul 2007 15:49:57 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/06/07/how-to-avoid-marrying-a-jerk-or-jerkette/#comment-25063 Who said I'm blind to their faults? Nor is there reason to be blind. That would be akin to seeing what I want to see, not who they really are. It's about knowing people's faults and accepting them without wanting to change them that I am working towards. And yes, I WILL call a man a jerk if he doesn't respect his partner's boundaries and use abuse, violence or manipulation with her. Who said I’m blind to their faults? Nor is there reason to be blind. That would be akin to seeing what I want to see, not who they really are.

It’s about knowing people’s faults and accepting them without wanting to change them that I am working towards.

And yes, I WILL call a man a jerk if he doesn’t respect his partner’s boundaries and use abuse, violence or manipulation with her.

]]> By: Ramesh http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/06/07/how-to-avoid-marrying-a-jerk-or-jerkette/#comment-25061 Ramesh Tue, 17 Jul 2007 15:31:58 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/06/07/how-to-avoid-marrying-a-jerk-or-jerkette/#comment-25061 For a person who claims to be blind to the faults in her partner, you seem to use the word jerk a lot. For a person who claims to be blind to the faults in her partner, you seem to use the word jerk a lot.

]]> By: Subhojit Dasgupta http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/06/07/how-to-avoid-marrying-a-jerk-or-jerkette/#comment-23862 Subhojit Dasgupta Sat, 09 Jun 2007 20:04:35 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/06/07/how-to-avoid-marrying-a-jerk-or-jerkette/#comment-23862 I love what Scott Adams had to say regarding this ;-) "In less enlightened times, the best way to impress women was to own a hot car. But women wised up and realized it was better to buy their own hot cars so they wouldn't have to ride around with jerks" Good one there;) I love what Scott Adams had to say regarding this ;-)

“In less enlightened times, the best way to impress women was to own a hot car. But women wised up and realized it was better to buy their own hot cars so they wouldn’t have to ride around with jerks”

Good one there;)

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