Comments on: Guest Author: How to Attract a Good Man http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/08/09/guest-author-how-to-attract-a-good-man/ An Appetite For Life Sat, 11 Oct 2008 12:18:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.2 By: mary http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/08/09/guest-author-how-to-attract-a-good-man/#comment-56041 mary Fri, 06 Jun 2008 07:13:30 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/08/09/guest-author-how-to-attract-a-good-man/#comment-56041 I love this! When I first went away to college I wasn\'t even aware that I was so desperate. I used to cry and wanted a guy to come along so badly. That was almost 6 years ago now and articles like this make me so happy to read. Not to be ego-centric, but it reminds me of how far I have come and how much happier women can be when they truly stop basing their happiness or sense of wholeness on their relationships. We should not define ourselves to that extent through romantic relationships. I am a little lonely in life and would like to find a relationship eventually, but I love that I have activities and hobbies and feel that I am not in such a hurry or lonely enough to take whoever comes along and chooses me. I acknowledge that I haven\'t dated in such a long time and dating would be nice, but no one I am interested in has come along and I have so many other ways to make myself happy. Who you are in a relationship with is a reflection of yourself! I love that. I love this! When I first went away to college I wasn\’t even aware that I was so desperate. I used to cry and wanted a guy to come along so badly. That was almost 6 years ago now and articles like this make me so happy to read. Not to be ego-centric, but it reminds me of how far I have come and how much happier women can be when they truly stop basing their happiness or sense of wholeness on their relationships. We should not define ourselves to that extent through romantic relationships. I am a little lonely in life and would like to find a relationship eventually, but I love that I have activities and hobbies and feel that I am not in such a hurry or lonely enough to take whoever comes along and chooses me. I acknowledge that I haven\’t dated in such a long time and dating would be nice, but no one I am interested in has come along and I have so many other ways to make myself happy. Who you are in a relationship with is a reflection of yourself! I love that.

]]> By: Claudia http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/08/09/guest-author-how-to-attract-a-good-man/#comment-46235 Claudia Thu, 14 Feb 2008 18:12:15 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/08/09/guest-author-how-to-attract-a-good-man/#comment-46235 Hi! Yes you are so right. A man can't make you happy, or children or any thing. I found that no matter what happens those old holes in the self always surface no matter what new man we meet. And to top it all until we have looked to ourselves we will keep attracting the same kind of man that possibly hurts us - this is a message that it's time to heal and not keep blaming the men. I hear it all too often - there are no good men out there - they are all married or gay. Talk about affirming your set of beliefs! Thanks for the lovely post. Hi!

Yes you are so right. A man can’t make you happy, or children or any thing.

I found that no matter what happens those old holes in the self always surface no matter what new man we meet. And to top it all until we have looked to ourselves we will keep attracting the same kind of man that possibly hurts us - this is a message that it’s time to heal and not keep blaming the men.

I hear it all too often - there are no good men out there - they are all married or gay. Talk about affirming your set of beliefs!

Thanks for the lovely post.

]]> By: Personal Development Reviews http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/08/09/guest-author-how-to-attract-a-good-man/#comment-33058 Personal Development Reviews Sun, 11 Nov 2007 09:36:10 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/08/09/guest-author-how-to-attract-a-good-man/#comment-33058 We’re whole once we realize we already possess everything we want or need on the inside of us. We come into a conscious awareness that there is no lack in our lives. We recognize that we are complete and no one can add to or take way anything from our life. In our wholeness, we know that our life is what we make it. The Article is very nice We’re whole once we realize we already possess everything we want or need on the inside of us. We come into a conscious awareness that there is no lack in our lives. We recognize that we are complete and no one can add to or take way anything from our life. In our wholeness, we know that our life is what we make it. The Article is very nice

]]> By: Liara Covert http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/08/09/guest-author-how-to-attract-a-good-man/#comment-27259 Liara Covert Fri, 14 Sep 2007 10:16:10 +0000 http://www.soulkadee.com/2007/08/09/guest-author-how-to-attract-a-good-man/#comment-27259 This guest posting certainly offers ideas worth reflecting about. Personally, I think you can learn about yourself and grow on one level and seek a different kind of completeness in your personal life. Each of us beats our own drum and follows our own path. You may find the following two articles relate to this thread's theme: http://blog.dreambuilders.com.au/journal/2007/3/29/the-biggest-risk-ever.html http://blog.dreambuilders.com.au/journal/2007/9/8/the-biggest-risk-ever-follow-up.html This guest posting certainly offers ideas worth reflecting about. Personally, I think you can learn about yourself and grow on one level and seek a different kind of completeness in your personal life. Each of us beats our own drum and follows our own path. You may find the following two articles relate to this thread’s theme:

http://blog.dreambuilders.com.au/journal/2007/3/29/the-biggest-risk-ever.html
http://blog.dreambuilders.com.au/journal/2007/9/8/the-biggest-risk-ever-follow-up.html

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