Happy Earth Day 2007

April 22nd, 2007, 10:00 am by Priya Florence Shah
Filed under Ecology, Self-Awareness, Healing, Events, Wellness, Spirituality, Attitude, Thoughts

I just got back from a totally chilled out vacation in Goa, yesterday. Spent all night downloading and replying to a couple thousand emails. Whew, thank God that’s done!

I’m selling a vacation week at Goa and another in beautiful Bali on Ebay. I really wish I could have used them myself, but I booked them early - well before my daughter’s vacation dates were announced. So if you’re interested in purchasing them, either go to the Ebay links or contact me personally and we’ll work something out.

Today is Earth Day, and global warming is the most urgent crisis our planet is dealing with today. As the Earth Day site notes,

Happy Earth Day 2007

Global warming threatens our planet and could cause untold harm to our planet’s ecosystem. Some of these changes have already begun:

severe weather changes;
threats to our food and water supplies;
rising sea levels;
glacier melting;
endangerment of thousands of plant and animal species;
the spread of deadly diseases.

Since I believe in focusing on Positive Action, here are some recommendations on what you can do right now to minimise your ecological footprint.

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I’m thrilled with the outcome of Naaree.com’s free Intuition Workshop, titled ‘Develop Your Sixth Sense’, that we held on Sunday, 11th March, 2007, in Mumbai. It was a great success and we had some wonderful sharing and feedback from participants. A camera crew from Times Now covered the event. We’ll let you know when they air it on TV.

One of the participants, wrote to me saying:

Hi Priya,
It was a pleasure to have met you yesterday. Thanks for the efforts you took in organising the workshop.
I thoroughly enjoyed it. I also read many of your postings on soulkadee.com.
Very wonderful and insightful.
Thanks again!
Hema.

The workshop was conducted by psychologist and trainer, Tarannum Siddiqui, who has six years of experience in training and conducting enlightenment workshops, to help people to better their visionary skills and perpetual insight.

Tarannum elucidated all the four psychic senses: feeling, gut feeling, intuition and vision. Feelers are people who feel the positive and negative vibes from all the people who are around them. If a feeler is near a positive person he will feel good and if near a negative person he will feel low.

Tarannum explained that though research showed women were more intuitive than men, men are more likely to trust their hunches and gut feeling. Women tend to doubt themselves and don’t trust their intuition as much as they should.

Read the update on Naaree.com’s Develop Your Sixth Sense workshop

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My new portal for Indian women arose out of my passion for helping women empower themselves. If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you’ll know that I’ve been learning to develop and trust my intuition or inner knowing to guide me through life.

In my effort to provide others (especially women, who are naturally intuitive) with the tools to do that, I’m organising a free workshop on intuition. The details are below, so if you live in Mumbai, do register quickly. We have limited seats.

For Immediate Release

Naaree.com Celebrates International Women’s Day With Free Intuition Workshop

7 March, 2007, Mumbai - To celebrate International Women’s Day 2007, Naaree.com is organising a free workshop, titled Develop Your Sixth Sense, with the aim of helping women get in touch with their intuition and inner guidance.

To enable career women to attend the three-hour workshop, it will be held on Sunday, 11th March, 2007, from 3 to 6 pm, at Hotel Four Seasons, near Prithvi Theatre in Juhu, Mumbai.

Intuition is now considered an essential skill necessary to successful living. Our relationships and careers can, both, benefit from our ability to trust and use our intuition in daily life.

Women are naturally intuitive beings. But in a world where five-sensory, logical and rational thinking is valued over hunches and gut feeling, many of us have learned to distrust our inner knowing. Disconnecting from this source of universal wisdom has weakened women and prevented us from reaching our full potential.

In our effort to empower everyone, and women in particular, to develop and trust their inner guidance, Naaree.com has employed the skills of psychologist and trainer Tarannum Siddiqui, in organising a Develop Your Sixth Sense workshop.

Ms. Siddiqui has over six years of experience in training and conducts regular Enlightenment workshops to help women and corporate professionals enhance their visionary skills and perceptual insight.

The workshop is open to all, irrespective of gender, and will cover the topics here.

  • What is intuition?
  • What type of intuitive are you?
  • Take the Intuitive Test
  • How to use intuition with intention at work and in relationships
  • The I AM exercise
  • The Telepathy game
  • Discussion and sharing

For more information, and to register for the Develop Your Sixth Sense workshop, please contact Ms. Siddiqui at 9820188998. Registrations are limited, so please book your space early.

For more information about Naaree.com and our plans for future workshops, please contact us here:
Priya Florence Shah
Editor, Naaree.com
Email: priya [AT] naaree.com

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Viva Carnavale!

February 21st, 2007, 5:20 pm by Priya Florence Shah
Filed under Events, Creativity, My Life, Experiences, India, Attitude, Thoughts

Just uploaded the photos from my weekend in Goa, where I attended a wedding, saw my new baby neice and attended the Carnival celebrations in Panjim.

Thanks to politicking, the Carnival was a rather tepid affair, with many floats looking like they’d been thrown together at the last minute (which they were). Hopefully next year will be different. Check out some of the photos below.

Goa Carnival

Carnival float in Panjim

Carnivale float in Panjim

Carnival float in Panjim

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Single and HappyI’m a Quirkyalone - someone who’s content to be on her own and doesn’t feel the need to go on endless dates or be part of a couple.

I admitted as much to Debjani Ray who interviewed me for an article on Quirkyalones in Mumbai for the Sunday’s edition of DNA (Daily News And Analysis). If you can’t access it at that link, download it here.

The article erroneously put my age at 37 and my daughter’s at 6. Actually I’m 36 and she’s 7. Minor detail. Here’s one of the photos they took of me and Sara, outside Infiniti Mall in Andheri.

I enjoyed reading the opinions of the other quirkys quoted in the article, and especially agree with the guy who thinks of relationships as a way to grow and enhance our lives, not a way to escape from loneliness.

You can be lonelier in a bad relationship/marriage, than when single. Better single and happy, than married and miserable, I say. And I see a LOT of “married and miserables” around me nowadays. One more reason to remain single.

Another reason I like being single is because (as I said in the DNA article) I can’t think of sharing my personal space with another person. It would mean too much adjustment, and I don’t need that.

I love my freedom and independence, and am not willing to give that up for anyone right now. I believe in being with someone because I CHOOSE to, not because I HAVE to.

Some people might call that commitment-phobic. But marriage is a lifetime commitment. And, having been in a marriage (which, for the most part, was happy), I take commitment much too seriously to get involved with a man who doesn’t meet my standards of what I want in a partner.

Besides, I don’t know anyone who gets married thinking, “Oh, it’s not going to last anyway, so we might as well have fun for a few years and then, when we’re bored with each other, we’ll get a divorce.” I know Hollywood celebs do it all the time, but do we really need to complicate our lives for the sake of a piece of paper?

It’s not that I’m against marriage. I’m just against marrying for the WRONG reasons. And that includes:

  • Feeling lonely or unloved: This comes from a lack of self-love. It’s something no one can give you but yourself. Applies to both men and women.
  • Financial security: Women are guilty of this one. But, unless you have a trust fund or a rich dad, being financially independent is essential for a women. So stop letting your brain cells degenerate with those saas-bahu soaps, ladies. Put that education to use and get yourself a career.
  • Respectability: No longer a valid reason to get married. Single people and courting couples now get as much respect as smug marrieds. Even in India.
  • “My biological clock is ticking”: Having kids is not a good enough reason to get married nowadays. Thanks to celebs like , and , single parenting and adoption are now respectable options.
  • Fear of old age: Having a spouse to take care of you or be a companion in old age is no reason to get married. Like the lady in the DNA article, I’d rather pay someone to take care of me than marry for that reason. Having a lively social life and a few good friends of my age is all the companionship I need, thank you.
  • Wanting someone to “keep house”: This is the #1 reason many of you mama’s boys choose to get married. Shame on you, guys! If you want hot meals and a clean home, learn to do it yourself or pay someone to do it. Your wife is not your servant.

But I think one of the main reasons I’m so content being single is that I have no illusions about Prince Charming coming along on his white horse to save me. In case your mother forgot to tell you, THERE IS NO PRINCE CHARMING coming to save you. Not now! Not ever!

Not like I need saving anyway. We Aries women (think Scarlett O’Hara) are quite capable of saving his highness’ princely ass, as well as our own, thank you very much.

Sure, I believe in love, but not as an emotion. For me, love is a practice, a way of living and being. Romantic love is far too restrictive to encompass the beautiful expression of caring, giving and compassion that I call love. In a relationship, love is something that grows over time. It happens naturally and can’t be forced.

Nor am I against being in a relationship. I see relationships as a path to personal and spiritual growth. I believe that people are mirrors, reflecting back to us what we need to change in ourselves. In a relationship you learn things about yourself (and others) that you can never learn on your own.

Our partners are sent to us when we have something new to learn. When we act from our higher self and learn our lessons well, we go on to the next level of consciousness. If we choose to act from ego, the lesson will be sent to us again, till we learn it. That’s the reason patterns keep repeating in our relationships (like when you keep attracting abusive men or losers).

I cherish all my relationships, because I’ve learned and grown with each and every person I’ve encountered. And I don’t mean only lovers, although I’ve probably learned much more from them, and am grateful for every precious moment.

I believe that more and more people will choose to become quirkyalones, cohabit, or wait for marriage until they find the right partner. So is marriage a dying institution? I’ll write more on that later, but do leave your thoughts till then.

As far as being a Quirkyalone goes, like the slogan says, “I’m loving it!”

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Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend.
Martin Luther King, Jr.

The war against terror cannot be won on the oilfields of Iraq or the ravines of Afghanistan. The battleground is, in fact, much closer to home.

People are mirrors, reflecting back to us the fear and hatred that arises in our own mind.

We hate others when we see in them something we dislike in ourselves. We judge them because we judge ourselves.

We get angry with them because we are angry with ourselves. We treat them as inferior because we see ourselves as unworthy.

The most important relationship in your life is not the one you have with your parents, your mate, or your children. It’s the relationship you have with YOURSELF.

If we treated ourselves half as well as we treat the people we love, we’d never allow the seeds of fear, hate, anger or judgment to take root in our minds and hearts.

When you can look at yourself with love and compassion, and accept yourself without judgement, there will be no room for negativity in your mind.

In a world where everyone loved themselves unconditionally, there would be no place for terror, war, racism or bigotry.

The LOC is in your own thoughts €œ and only you can decide whether you want to control it or let it control you.

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Goodbye, Crocodile Hunter

September 5th, 2006, 2:57 pm by Priya Florence Shah
Filed under Ecology, Self-Awareness, Attraction, Events, My Life, Attitude, Movies, Experiences, Thoughts

Steve Irwin, Crocodile HunterGod, I never thought I would actually shed tears at the passing of Steve Irwin, the crazy Australian crocodile hunter and conservationist!

I mean, I never really cared for the way he seemed to terrorise those poor animals into submission.

And as a mother, I was completely horrified when he put his one-month old baby in danger, even though, he claimed, the only way he would have dropped him was “if the ground shook.”

Along with millions of other people around the world, I thought he’d really gone off the deep end that time.

I actually prefer Jeff Corwin - he’s dishier, and nicer to the animals. But as an environmentalist, I had more than a grudging admiration and respect for Steve’s passion, his willingness to risk life and limb for his work, his true love for the animals he protected, and his radical, if somewhat lunatic methods.

I’m comforted knowing that he died while following his passion and doing something he loved. To use a phrase from the movie, Legends of the Fall, “It was a good death.”

I salute the divine in you, Steve Irwin. Goodbye from a fan in India. You will always be a hero to me.

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Activism Gets A Boost After Blasts

July 19th, 2006, 11:21 am by Priya Florence Shah
Filed under Events, Self-Awareness, Mumbai, Self Help, Experiences, India, Attitude, Thoughts

Well, Narendra Modi came and went. And for once even he exercised restraint, agreeing with the opinion that “Terrorists have no religion.” I hope the angry people out there exercise similar restraint.

The two minutes of silence held across the city at 6.25 pm yesterday for those killed in the blasts, was a touching gesture. But it will take more than symbolism, and futile actions like blocking blogs and websites, to combat this evil.

Fed up with government inaction and platitudes about the city’s spirit, the citizens of Mumbai are getting ready to take action after the Mumbai blasts.

The Times Of India has created a petition to address some pressing demands including

  • More autonomy on how this city is run.
  • More money, for the state and from the state.
  • More accountability and transparency.
  • More civilized living.
  • More safety and security.

The petition will be submitted to the Prime Minister. For each signature, TOI will also contribute a rupee toward welfare of those affected by the recent blasts.

If you’ve had enough, speak up. And spread the word.

The Mumbai People’s Action Committee is holding a meeting to discuss possible (peaceful) options to make a difference.

Thanks to Madhav Menon for this information.

MUMBAI PEOPLE’S ACTION COMMITTEE

Please attend the meeting on “Bomb blasts, floods, and other disasters, government inaction, and what we can do”

Date: Thursday, 20 July 2006.

Venue: Rachna Sansad, Behind Ravindra Natya Mandir, Off Sayani Road, Prabhadevi.

Time: 6.00 PM

Mumbai dealt with the blasts that rattled the otherwise calm city, mainly courtesy its people. On several occasions Mumbaikars have depicted their spirit that has sailed it through any disaster that came its way.

But the spirit of Mumbai cannot compensate for the lack of government action and inefficiency in disaster management. Where is the spirit of the government to work for its people?

Mumbai People’s Action Committee (MPAC) calls for representation from different organizations, and different arenas of work in a meeting to react on the issue and prove to the government that the present calm of the city should not be mistaken for apathy.

The meeting would be focused to review the failures of the state government in fulfilling their promises post July 26 2005, the inefficiency of the disaster management cell, the general resistance to take responsibility and lack of seriousness towards issues relating to urban planning.

The meeting will discuss
1) expectations from the govt, and administration,
2) possible solutions and demands
3) maintaining peace in the city in the aftermath of the blasts.

Please come for what is a crucial meeting in the present context.

In solidarity

Dr Shanti Patel, Dada Samant, Datta Iswalkar, Neera Adarkar

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112 B Saat Aasra Society, SS Rao Rd, Mumbai- 400012. Ph: 24174048

I’m definitely going to make it tomorrow. If you’re a Mumbaikar who wants to make a difference to our city, please attend.

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Mumbai’s On Edge: Take Action, Dr. Singh

July 17th, 2006, 2:13 pm by Priya Florence Shah
Filed under Events, Self-Awareness, Mumbai, Self Help, My Life, India, Experiences, Thoughts

The editor of Loksatta was right when he said, during “The Big Mumbai Debate” on CNN-IBN, that the citizens of Mumbai go to war everyday.

Every time I walk past the security at Vashi station, board the train, look for suspicious packages on the luggage racks (why don’t they do away with those stupid racks anyway?), I wonder where the next target will be, and if I’ll reach home and see my little girl again.

The celebrated spirit of Mumbaikars is taking a beating, sinking lower and lower every day. Just now there was another bomb scare at Dadar station and several local trains were stopped.

But here’s what makes me really angry:

1. I have no faith left in the Mumbai police. As the panel of speakers on CNN-IBN said, and the police chief himself glumly admitted, continual interference in police matters by politicians has completely demoralised the Mumbai police. No one even wants to be posted to Mumbai.

What action can a demoralised and ineffectual police force take against terrorists? Days after the blasts, and there’s still no clue about who did it. It’s no wonder that Mumbaikars like me have lost all faith in the police.

2. Narendra Damodardas Modi in Mumbai. This man who sat by like the proverbial Nero, while the state of Gujarat burned, was responsible for the anti-Muslim pogrom during the riots in Gujarat in 2002.

And today he visited Mumbai, ostensibly to “talk on terrorism,” but more likely to spread his agenda of hate. The Maharastra government warned him to “watch his words“, but why allow him here in the first place?

Go back Modi! The last thing our bruised city needs now is a riot,” said the headline of today’s Mid-Day. And I quote here from the editorial:

We don’t want you here. We don’t like your mug on posters that blabber about fighting terrorism, when really, all you want to do is the routine you did after Godhra. Our city is tense and angry enough without that act.

We don’t want you here. We don’t want a riot. Do you hear us?

You want division and hatred transmitted through the wireless acoustics of Mumbai. But you know what, we don’t want to hear it.

A million people who are reading this are probably travelling on trains, Mr Modi. Trains very much like the ones blown up last Tuesday. They are on their way to work. Or going back home.

Don’t try and turn Bombay into Baroda. Here, Best bakeries are simply places that bake the best breads. We want it to stay that way.

Do you hear us?

It isn’t that we are in love with those who currently govern us.

Our chief minister would like to live in Shanghai € and a lot of people in the city think he should.

Our home minister busied himself trying to shut dance bars as terrorist sleeper modules woke up and planned this thing.

But Mumbai, if not its politicians, is committed to getting the people who took the lives of our fellow travellers.

We are also committed to fighting for a more secure future. And we are intent on delivering this message € our way, not yours € to the people who govern.

Despite the simmering anger, city netas across the spectrum€and even the fringe that you belong to € have shown a restraint that is necessary at this time.

‘Restraint’, Mr Modi. Look it up in the dictionary.

It could still turn out okay. We’re optimistic enough to believe that you will come and go and nothing will happen. We know, from your illustrious career, that you will do your best to ensure something does. Thing is, Mr Modi, the Mumbai spirit doesn’t need Modifications. So why not spare us all this bother and take the first flight back?

Do you hear us?

3. People who talk of “retaliation” and “genocide” in the same breath. Do they even know what genocide means?

The systematic killing of substantial numbers of people on the basis of ethnicity, religion, political opinion, social status, or other particularity. Acts committed with intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnic, racial or religious group.

Even though I make a conscious choice to be forgiving and compassionate, I know we must take action to prevent these incidents from occurring, and more important, make authorities accountable for their failure to act.

But talking of genocide is taking it too far. That’s the speciality of people like Modi, Hitler and Bush.

Do we need the deaths of more innocents (which is exactly what genocide entails) on our collective conscience? Does murder justify mass murder? Wasn’t Gujarat enough?

Since we’re all facing the same enemy, we need to unite, not attack each other. Nowadays it takes just a rumour on SMS or a careless comment to spark a riot.

When even political parties like the Sena have been showing restraint because of the potential consequences, I find it extremely irresponsible of these people to go around spreading more hate.

4. Our PM running to Bush for “help”. Now this is too much! Can’t the World’s Biggest Democracy take care of it’s own? Why do we need to go, with a begging bowl, to the World’s Biggest Terrorist? Here’s how I imagine that would go.

Dr. Singh: Oh Mr. Bush, puhleeese save us from these awful terrorists.

Bush: Sure Manny. Just tell me who’s responsible for these atrocious acts and I’ll have Con-doh-leeza on it right away.

This part of the report had me really riled up:

Though Singh did not raise the issue of Islamabad’s alleged support to terror groups that target India in his opening remarks, he later told Bush that cross-border terrorism was becoming a menace for India.

Becoming a menace for India, Dr. Singh? When is it going to become menace enough for you to speak up and condemn Pakistan in stronger terms for harbouring terrorists? We need action and leadership, Dr. Singh! When are you going to provide it?

But I’ve given up questioning the wisdom of the Indian government. I know that change must come from within - from civil society.

Because we’re the ones who elect the gutless leaders, the corrupt, grasping corporators, more concerned with grabbing power and lining their pockets, than about people like you and me who literally go to war everyday.

We’re the ones who created the problem, and we must be the ones to find a solution.

Not one that creates more bloodshed, but that unites all Indians against terror, violence and the politics of hatred. And demands accountability from the police, politicians and the administration.

I’m serious about making a change. One that takes the interests of all Indians to heart. Are you with me on this? Do comment and let me know.

Also see:

Mumbai Blasts: Trash the spirit. Speak Up

Tain ki dard na aaya (Did You not feel the pain?)

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After the 7/11 Mumbai Blasts, there are a LOT of angry people out there talking about revenge and retaliation. Why do I think this is not going to help?

First, revenge and violence is easy - it’s the coward’s way!

If you want revenge, and need some place to vent your anger (without taking it out on more innocents) join the army and ask them to post you to the border. If you want to be a true hero, and be martyred, that’s where you’re needed.

So go - use your anger where it will make a difference. Only cowards talk of revenge, destroy public property, start riots and harm innocent people.

Terrorists are cowards. Their only aim is to stir up more hatred and create the potential for more violence. If you give in to hate, you’ve let them win. If you want to sink to their level, follow their lead.

Why do so few people advocate restraint and self-control? Because it’s hard! Restraint takes courage.

I’m proud of the Indian government for not reacting like the US government did. I know that when the time comes to act they WILL respond - and no one will blame us for doing so.

I believe in karma. What goes around comes around. Terrorists and people who do bad things will get what’s coming to them either in this life or the next. It’s not up to you or me to judge or punish them.

Trust in the wisdom of the universe and the fact that everything happens for a reason. Sometimes things get worse before they get better. Accept that this may be one of those times.

People who are discontent become terrorists. If you want to prevent terrorism, help those who are unhappy improve their lives. Join your mohalla committee or work in your community to help people who are disadvantaged.

If you REALLY want to make a difference, you need go no further than your own home and community. That’s where real change starts.

If you want to use your anger for something positive, help those who have been working against communal violence since the 1993 riots. Or join organisations like AGNI, that have been working to improve the lives of Mumbaikars for years.

I don’t understand people who advocate violence. History has proved that violence never solves problems, only creates more of them.

You may not believe in what said, but if you respect a person for what he achieves, at least respect the fact that he, almost single-handedly, united Indians and freed a country. If that’s not an achievement, what is?

Instead of advocating revenge, violence and retaliation, try to achieve a 1000th of what Gandhi did for India. And I will call you a true hero!

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